what can I say about myself hmm...I'm a latin girl, love answering questions and giving advice. It brings me joy so ask me anything you'd like, I don't judge plus there's anon for a reason :) I just post whatever I want so #dontjudgeme
You shouldn’t. The only reason you loosen up before sex it’s because as you’re being aroused your vaginal muscles relax making it expand of coarse. The body does it involuntarily for easy penetration. If you weren’t into it you would be tighter, this is why foreplay is so important for females.
Think of it like this. When you smile it stretches your lips and once you stop it goes back to it’s original state. The elasticity isn’t harmed in any way.
Don’t feel ashamed of being “as stretched as you are”, and if you do well…just get a bigger partner ;)
I will go with the second one but then again it’s not like guys like that stuff on them so I can’t return THAT favor haha